Sometimes it’ll be hard and other days it’ll hurt like hell but the one of the most successful moments you’ll ever have as an adult, is when you learn to take care of you and only you. It’s not selfish, it’s survival. For some of us, being needed and taking care of others gives purpose. But the truth is…when you’ve surrounded yourself with individuals who are constantly needing to be rescued, who’s going to be there to rescue you? Autonomy is good.